Beatrice Lillie
in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Beatrice Lillie rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Lillie's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Lillie may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Beatrice difficult to live with. Beatrice Lillie needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Beatrice Lillie often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Lillie thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Beatrice is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Beatrice Lillie has good psychological insight into others.
Beatrice Lillie often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Lillie actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Beatrice Lillie to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Beatrice Lillie becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Lillie can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Beatrice does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Beatrice Lillie is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Beatrice has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Beatrice Lillie has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Beatrice Lillie undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
She is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and she tries to suppress the jealousy she may feel. Beatrice Lillie may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making her a bit hard and unyielding in later life.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Beatrice Lillie enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Beatrice wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Beatrice Lillie very happy. Beatrice wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Beatrice Lillie may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Lillie is a natural host or diplomat.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Beatrice Lillie in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Lillie is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Beatrice Lillie at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.
Beatrice Lillie has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Lillie tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Beatrice Lillie might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Beatrice Lillie tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Lillie resents authority and likes to be different. Beatrice Lillie may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Opposition Saturn/Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Opposition Moon/Uranus
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