Barbara Payton
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Barbara Payton rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Payton's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Payton may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Barbara difficult to live with. Barbara Payton needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Barbara Payton a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Barbara's past are especially dear to her.

Barbara Payton may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Barbara Payton often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Payton actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Barbara Payton to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Barbara Payton becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Payton can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Barbara Payton often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Barbara Payton is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

She is likely to be noted for her good looks and good taste in clothes. Barbara Payton is able to attract and influence others because she is so pleasant and so sincere in her approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Payton also is strongly attached to her home and family.

Barbara Payton possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Barbara Payton will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Barbara does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Barbara Payton wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Barbara Payton appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Barbara Payton, and she has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Payton and she instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

She enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Barbara Payton appreciates artistic people.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Barbara Payton to be able to deeply respect her partner. Barbara looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Barbara Payton is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.

Barbara Payton thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Payton relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.

Barbara Payton has a propensity for clandestine and secret love affairs and tends to keep her relationships hidden. Barbara could find herself in some peculiar relationships where she or her partner could be reluctant to make an external commitment.

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Barbara Payton seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Payton tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Venus in Libra

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury

Venus Conjunct Mars/Neptune

Venus Opposition Uranus/MC