Bai Ling
in Relationships
She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Bai should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Ling often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Ling's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Bai Ling insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Bai does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Bai Ling feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Bai Ling a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Bai's past are especially dear to her.
Bai Ling may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
Bai Ling has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Bai out for help, sympathy or advice. Bai Ling is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Bai Ling craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Ling also loves to feel free and unfettered.
In love relationships, Bai Ling desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Bai "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Ling can be very demanding of her love partner. Bai Ling tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Bai Ling is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Ling is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Bai Ling thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Bai Ling has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well-being. It is rare for Bai to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Ling. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Bai Ling to channel her passion.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Bai Ling and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Bai allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Bai Ling, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Bai Ling yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Ling frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Bai Ling does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Bai has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with her environment. Charming and friendly, she is on good terms with most of the people in her sphere. Her friends and associates mean a lot to Bai Ling and her relationships are positive and loving.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 11th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.
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