Audrey Totter
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Audrey Totter has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Audrey Totter is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Totter for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Totter's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Totter. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Audrey, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.

Audrey Totter frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.

Totter identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Audrey Totter takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Audrey Totter actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Audrey Totter values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Audrey desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Totter, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Audrey Totter appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Audrey Totter very happy. Audrey wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Audrey Totter may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Totter is a natural host or diplomat.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Audrey Totter and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Audrey allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Audrey Totter, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Audrey Totter has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find herself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Totter could become quite obsessed by someone and she has a tendency to control and manipulate her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 12th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 10th house

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Opposition Mars/Pluto