challenges and difficulties
Ashley Cole takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Ashley enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Ashley Cole also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Ashley Cole takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Cole a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Ashley Cole and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Cole will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Ashley Cole pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined, and thorough manner, and he is willing to takes his time, advancing slowly and steadily on his way towards his goal.
Sometimes Ashley Cole underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ashley Cole instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ashley Cole needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Ashley Cole's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Cole's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Ashley Cole is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Ashley should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Ashley Cole can offer the world at large.
It is in his work and his relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Cole's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
He is very social and his relationships with others are very warm and expansive. It is essential for Ashley's emotional welfare to be surrounded by people and he is an active member of groups or associations he belongs to.
Ashley Cole has a tendency to shy away from other people, and he reacts toward others in an almost fearful way. Cole seems to lack confidence in himself and for this reason may feel that he lacks the ability to adapt easily into relationships with others.
He is very obliging in his interaction with other people and can easily relate to them. Ashley Cole is likely to have many friends and acquaintances who share the same ideas and viewpoints as he does.
Ashley should use extra care in his relationships with people, for he could easily end up in the wrong crowd. Ashley Cole could be the victim of fraud and falsehood or through association may become an accessory to malicious action.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Saturn
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Asc.
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Asc.