Arthur Hornblow Jr.
in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Arthur should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Hornblow often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Hornblow's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Arthur does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Though he yearns for close relationships, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Hornblow is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.
He is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to his surroundings. Arthur may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Arthur feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Arthur is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Hornblow may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Arthur believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
When it comes to love relationships, Hornblow is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Arthur Hornblow, Jr. has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Arthur acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Arthur Hornblow, Jr. is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Arthur and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Hornblow's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Arthur Hornblow, Jr. has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Arthur frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Hornblow can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Hornblow's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
It is easy for Arthur Hornblow, Jr. to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Arthur likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 8th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon Opposition Uranus/Neptune
Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 9th house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.
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