Arissa Hill
in Relationships

Arissa does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Arissa Hill would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Arissa Hill avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Hill. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Arissa Hill has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Hill also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Arissa, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Arissa Hill flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Arissa Hill feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Arissa Hill to learn. Arissa Hill should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Hill is reserved and shy and her thinking is controlled and somewhat slow. When talking, Arissa Hill sometimes may have the feeling that the words get stuck in her throat. Because of her disciplined mind, Arissa is able to concentrate easily.

She is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Arissa Hill expects very little. Once she has found her mate, Arissa Hill will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to her partner.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Arissa Hill enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Arissa wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Arissa Hill, and she has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Hill and she instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

She enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Arissa Hill appreciates artistic people.

Arissa Hill tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Hill may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Arissa Hill is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Arissa believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 6th house

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Moon Conjunct Venus/Saturn

Venus in Aries

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Quincunx Saturn