Andrea Montermini
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Andrea Montermini denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Andrea Montermini needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Andrea Montermini also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Andrea Montermini has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Montermini also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Andrea, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Andrea Montermini cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Montermini's motto.

Emotionally excitable, Montermini tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Andrea as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Andrea Montermini seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.

Sensitive and sentimental, Andrea Montermini is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Montermini to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Andrea Montermini seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Andrea likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Andrea Montermini often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Andrea. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Andrea Montermini may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Andrea Montermini - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Andrea Montermini in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Montermini is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Andrea Montermini at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Montermini is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Andrea Montermini has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Andrea acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Andrea, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Andrea Montermini tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Montermini's life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 12th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Sextile Uranus