Amy Smart
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Amy should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Smart often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Smart's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Amy Smart insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Amy does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Amy Smart feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Though she wants close relationships very much, Amy Smart often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Smart is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

Smart can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Amy Smart puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Smart may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Amy Smart might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Amy Smart gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Amy Smart may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Amy feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Amy Smart idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Amy is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Smart places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Amy Smart feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Amy Smart has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Amy frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Smart can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Smart's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Amy Smart will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.

She is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Amy Smart probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and her attachment to others is likely to be very deep.

It is easy for Amy Smart to show others the love she feels for them and she talks freely to them about her feelings. Amy likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify her environment as quickly as possible, once she has come up with an idea to do so.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 8th house

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon

Venus Conjunct Moon/MC

Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.