challenges and difficulties
Winehouse both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know her intimately does not come easily to Amy, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Amy Winehouse is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Winehouse.
Winehouse is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Amy Winehouse does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Amy Winehouse better than being with groups of her own peers.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Winehouse is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Amy Winehouse is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
Amy Winehouse tends to be somewhat insecure and uncertain about her direction in life. Frequently plagued by doubt and fear, she is inclined to worry a lot. Because Winehouse lacks the confidence to fight back, she may allow herself to become the victim of others.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Amy Winehouse instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Amy Winehouse needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Amy Winehouse needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Amy's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Winehouse's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Amy Winehouse to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Amy Winehouse is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Amy Winehouse needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Amy Winehouse to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Amy Winehouse has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/MC
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 7th house