Amanda Plummer
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Amanda Plummer denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Amanda Plummer needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Amanda Plummer also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Amanda Plummer has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Plummer also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Amanda, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Amanda Plummer gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Amanda Plummer may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Amanda feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Amanda Plummer idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Amanda is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Amanda Plummer feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Money is liable to be an issue in her life, not because she does not have it, but because Amanda Plummer cannot or will not hold onto it. Amanda Plummer has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget herself. At Plummer's worst, she wants an easy ride and friends will often let Amanda freeload because she is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Plummer could let other people take advantage of her hospitality and tolerance.

Plummer also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Amanda Plummer just wants to have a good time.

She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Amanda Plummer to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Plummer may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Amanda Plummer will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

She is inclined to have sudden attachments to others and may fall in love quickly. Amanda Plummer warms up to people very rapidly, even if she sees them only once. In fact, Amanda probably prefers a lot of changes in her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/N. Node