Alfred Lord Tennyson
in Relationships

Alfred Tennyson does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Alfred Lord Tennyson would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Alfred Lord Tennyson avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to 1st Baron Tennyson. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Alfred Tennyson, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

Alfred Lord Tennyson frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

1st Baron Tennyson identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Alfred Tennyson has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Alfred Lord Tennyson has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Alfred Lord Tennyson undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

In a love relationship, Alfred Lord Tennyson is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Alfred Tennyson likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Alfred Lord Tennyson becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Alfred Lord Tennyson's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Alfred Lord Tennyson needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. 1st Baron Tennyson finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

1st Baron Tennyson is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Alfred Lord Tennyson is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Alfred Tennyson uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Alfred Lord Tennyson does.

Alfred Lord Tennyson loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Alfred Tennyson considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Alfred Lord Tennyson overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.

Alfred Tennyson's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Alfred Lord Tennyson is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive 1st Baron Tennyson is to being left out or unappreciated.

Alfred Lord Tennyson tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. 1st Baron Tennyson may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Alfred Lord Tennyson is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Alfred Tennyson believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 12th house

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 1st house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Quincunx Saturn