Alexandra Maria Lara
in Relationships

Alexandra Maria Lara has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Lara expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Alexandra Maria Lara dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Alexandra abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Alexandra Maria Lara inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Alexandra is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Lara.

Alexandra Maria Lara becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Lara feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Alexandra Maria Lara a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Alexandra's past are especially dear to her.

Alexandra Maria Lara may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Lara's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Alexandra Maria Lara is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Alexandra Maria Lara that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Lara's neediness often drives others away. When Alexandra Maria Lara does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Lara will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Alexandra Maria Lara will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Alexandra Maria Lara has a strong desire for genuine understanding with others and finds it easy to share her feelings with them. Her feelings toward others are very loving and Alexandra is likely to have a lot in common with many of her friends.

She is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Alexandra Maria Lara does not like to be alone and she always keeps her house open for her friends and acquaintances.

In love relationships, Alexandra Maria Lara desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Alexandra "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Lara can be very demanding of her love partner. Alexandra Maria Lara tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Alexandra Maria Lara is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Alexandra is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Alexandra Maria Lara feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Alexandra Maria Lara shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Alexandra's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Alexandra Maria Lara also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Alexandra likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Alexandra's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Alexandra Maria Lara is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Lara is to being left out or unappreciated.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Alexandra Maria Lara to be able to deeply respect her partner. Alexandra looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Alexandra Maria Lara is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.

When it comes to love relationships, Lara is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Alexandra Maria Lara has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Alexandra acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Alexandra Maria Lara falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Alexandra to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Lara's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Alexandra Maria Lara, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.

Alexandra Maria Lara has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find herself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Lara could become quite obsessed by someone and she has a tendency to control and manipulate her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Opposition Venus/N. Node

Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto