Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Alex O'Loughlin has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Alex O'Loughlin is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to O'Loughlin for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes O'Loughlin's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for O'Loughlin. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Alex has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Alex O'Loughlin may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. O'Loughlin's ties to his mother are very strong and Alex also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
Alex O'Loughlin has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that O'Loughlin would react more intensely. Alex is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Alex O'Loughlin is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Alex O'Loughlin also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Alex O'Loughlin very happy. Alex wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Alex O'Loughlin may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. O'Loughlin is a natural host or diplomat.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Alex O'Loughlin puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Alex O'Loughlin and he is not happy without a love partner. O'Loughlin can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Alex O'Loughlin has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Alex frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, O'Loughlin can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of O'Loughlin's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 4th house
Moon Trine Saturn
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Neptune