Alec Baldwin
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontations or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Alec Baldwin is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly Alec Baldwin is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess from his smooth, even disposition.
Alec Baldwin often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Baldwin thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Alec is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Alec Baldwin has good psychological insight into others.
His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Alec Baldwin does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Baldwin tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Alec Baldwin enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Alec Baldwin values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Alec desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to Baldwin, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Alec Baldwin appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Alec Baldwin craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Alec loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Baldwin.
Alec Baldwin appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Alec Baldwin will rarely put himself out too much in order to do so. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
Alec's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Alec Baldwin is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Baldwin is to being left out or unappreciated.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Alec Baldwin to be able to deeply respect his partner. Alec looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Alec Baldwin is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Alec Baldwin plumbs the depths of which he is capable. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous, or deeply involved with partners who are. Baldwin will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships which, though difficult, will teach Alec Baldwin things about himself and about love that he could learn in no other way. Often Alec Baldwin will enter relationships which he knows rationally will be very difficult but, which he nevertheless cannot resist. Alec Baldwin needs not berate himself for these "bad" choices; instead he needs to learn what he can from them.
Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Alec Baldwin tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Alec has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Opposition Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn
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