challenges and difficulties
Adam Lazzara takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Adam enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Adam Lazzara also fears entrapment in close relationships.
He is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with his duty, his public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Adam Lazzara understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and he is capable of much self-discipline and patience once he sets his sights on a goal.
But Adam Lazzara is very judgmental and hard on himself if he fails to attain success, and he can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize his efforts.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Adam Lazzara pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and he is willing to take his time, advancing slowly and steadily toward his goal.
Sometimes Adam Lazzara underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Adam Lazzara has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on his own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Lazzara may be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express himself, thereby leaving a more negative impression than he intended.
His ambition and desire for power may be somewhat out of proportion and Lazzara can be quite ruthless when faced with potential obstacles and difficulties. Adam Lazzara must learn to control his temper and be willing to compromise.
Adam should take care not to trust others too blindly. Some of his friends or associates may be untruthful and try to deceive him, resulting in great disappointments or even losses for Lazzara.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Adam Lazzara instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Adam Lazzara needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Adam Lazzara's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Lazzara's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Adam Lazzara is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Adam should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Adam Lazzara can offer the world at large.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Adam Lazzara has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Lazzara will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Adam Lazzara in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Lazzara, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Adam Lazzara should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. He needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with his family or a community that can support him and give him a sense of safety and belonging.
Adam Lazzara should develop his listening skills and deepen his understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Adam Lazzara has to learn to trust his own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. He needs to care for himself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Adam Lazzara's best interest to take all that is good and helpful from his past and use it in a new way. (If he is so inclined, Adam may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts he has already developed).
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 10th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon