Ada Lovelace in Relationships
Ada Lovelace has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Countess Ada of Lovelace expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Ada Lovelace dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Ada Byron abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Ada Lovelace inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Ada Byron is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Countess Ada of Lovelace.
Ada Lovelace becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Countess Ada of Lovelace feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Ada Byron, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.
Ada Lovelace frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.
Countess Ada of Lovelace identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about meeting her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Ada Lovelace and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Ada Lovelace is apt to do more than her fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.
In addition to Ada Byron's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Ada Lovelace craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Countess Ada of Lovelace rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Ada Lovelace craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Countess Ada of Lovelace also loves to feel free and unfettered.
She is hard-working and tends to work till she collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Ada Lovelace comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Countess Ada of Lovelace must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.
In love relationships, Ada Lovelace desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Ada Byron "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Countess Ada of Lovelace can be very demanding of her love partner. Ada Lovelace tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Ada Lovelace is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Countess Ada of Lovelace is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Ada Lovelace prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Ada Byron.
Ada Byron is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Ada Lovelace very popular.
She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Ada Byron's nature and Ada Lovelace feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Countess Ada of Lovelace. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Ada Lovelace has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 12th house
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 7th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
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