Zulfikar Ali Bhutto
in Relationships
Zulfikar does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Bhutto. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Bhutto thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Zulfikar is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto has good psychological insight into others.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.
Although Bhutto gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Zulfikar Ali Bhutto to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Zulfikar Ali Bhutto either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Bhutto's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Zulfikar Ali Bhutto will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Zulfikar Ali Bhutto thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.
In love relationships, Zulfikar Ali Bhutto seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Zulfikar, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Zulfikar that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Zulfikar loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Bhutto.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Zulfikar Ali Bhutto will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Zulfikar Ali Bhutto is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Zulfikar and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Bhutto's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Zulfikar Ali Bhutto has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Zulfikar frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Bhutto can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Bhutto's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Mars/Saturn
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
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