Yvonne Murray in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Yvonne Murray rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Murray's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Murray may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Yvonne difficult to live with. Yvonne Murray needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Yvonne Murray often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Murray thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Yvonne is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Yvonne Murray has good psychological insight into others.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Yvonne Murray seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Yvonne has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Murray can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Yvonne Murray has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this she is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Yvonne Murray also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Yvonne Murray cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Yvonne wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Yvonne Murray is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.
Yvonne Murray craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Murray enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Murray is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Yvonne Murray is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Yvonne uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Yvonne Murray does.
Yvonne Murray shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Yvonne's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Yvonne Murray also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Yvonne likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Yvonne's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Yvonne Murray is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Murray is to being left out or unappreciated.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Yvonne Murray and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Yvonne allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Yvonne Murray, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Her erotic nature is strong and Yvonne Murray is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, she may have many unorthodox contacts. Yvonne has much zest for life, likes her freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.
Yvonne Murray has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find herself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Murray could become quite obsessed by someone and she has a tendency to control and manipulate her relationships.
It is easy for Yvonne Murray to show others the love she feels for them and she talks freely to them about her feelings. Yvonne likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify her environment as quickly as possible, once she has come up with an idea to do so.
Yvonne does not hold back with her charms and shows everyone what she has to offer. Her personality is quite dazzling and enables Yvonne Murray to attract many people. Her need for affection is strong; and Murray will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Venus
Venus in Leo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mars/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
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