Yvette Guilbert
in Relationships

Yvette Guilbert has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Guilbert expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Yvette Guilbert dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Yvette abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Yvette Guilbert inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Yvette is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Guilbert.

Yvette Guilbert becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Guilbert feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

Yvette has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Yvette Guilbert may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Guilbert's tie to her mother is very strong and Yvette Guilbert also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Yvette Guilbert tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Yvette Guilbert becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Guilbert gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Yvette Guilbert to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Guilbert can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Yvette Guilbert puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Guilbert may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Yvette Guilbert might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

Although Yvette Guilbert was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Yvette's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Yvette Guilbert often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Yvette Guilbert is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Yvette has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Yvette Guilbert to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Yvette Guilbert cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Guilbert's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Yvette at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Yvette Guilbert is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Yvette Guilbert may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Yvette desires.

For Yvette Guilbert, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Yvette values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Yvette Guilbert needs to beware of.

Her strong enthusiasm for life affects everyone around her. Yvette Guilbert has a sense of well-being, a harmonious sex-life and she is likely to enjoy healthy and affectionate love relationships. Yvette Guilbert also has a lot of creative ideas and could do well with some kind of craft projects.

Her energy and initiative seem to be a bit weak and could frequently inhibit Yvette's sex life. Her unrealistic ideals about relationships could lead to disillusionment, and Yvette Guilbert may feel that real mortals are disappointing, and prefer her fantasies.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 4th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Saturn/Neptune