Yanni
in Relationships

Yanni responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Yanni often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Yanni must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Yanni's need for times of withdrawal.

Yanni is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Yanni takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Yanni has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Yanni also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Yanni, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Yanni tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Yanni feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Yanni also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Yanni to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Yanni may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Although Yanni gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Yanni to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Yanni has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Yanni would react more intensely. Yanni is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

In love relationships, Yanni desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Yanni "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Yanni can be very demanding of his love partner. Yanni tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Yanni is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Yanni very happy. Yanni wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Yanni may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Yanni is a natural host or diplomat.

He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Yanni is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Yanni and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Yanni's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.

Yanni experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Yanni has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Yanni can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 6th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 10th house

Venus Trine Uranus

Venus Square Pluto