Xenia Seeberg
in Relationships

Open and generous, Xenia Seeberg enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Seeberg rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Xenia always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Xenia Seeberg often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Seeberg, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Xenia Seeberg to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Xenia's aspirations and ideals. Xenia Seeberg also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Xenia Seeberg cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Xenia Seeberg has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Xenia takes risks on impulse or whim.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Xenia Seeberg does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Seeberg tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Xenia Seeberg enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

In a love relationship, Xenia Seeberg is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Xenia likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Xenia Seeberg becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Xenia Seeberg's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Xenia Seeberg needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Seeberg finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Seeberg is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Xenia Seeberg thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Xenia Seeberg is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Xenia Seeberg pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Intimacy does not come easily to Xenia Seeberg and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Seeberg does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Xenia Seeberg needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Xenia Seeberg tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Xenia frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Xenia Seeberg also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Xenia Seeberg loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Seeberg may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Xenia Seeberg seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for her or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Seeberg could have a kind of tragic love union.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 5th house

Moon Sextile Uranus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Opposition Pluto/N. Node