Willa Ford in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Willa Ford rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Ford's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Ford may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Willa difficult to live with. Willa Ford needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Willa Ford cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Willa Ford has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Willa takes risks on impulse or whim.
Willa Ford craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Willa Ford to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Ford. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Ford likes it that way.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Willa Ford cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Ford's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Willa at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Willa Ford is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Willa Ford may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Willa desires.
Willa is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Ford places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Also, Willa Ford feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
Willa Ford shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Willa's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Willa Ford also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Willa likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Willa's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Willa Ford is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Ford is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Willa Ford rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Willa is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Ford craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Willa Ford needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Ford's constitution tends to be on the weak side and she may tire easily. In love relationships she could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Willa Ford could also have questionable romances that leave Willa disappointed.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 5th house
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune
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