Wesley Clark
in Relationships

Emotional outbursts are frequent with Wesley Clark due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Clark expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Wesley Clark dislikes showing any personal weaknesses or needs for support, comfort, and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and with others. Wesley abhors emotional dependency and dislike "complainers".

Wesley Clark inspires others to take positive action in their lives by his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous, and independent. Wesley is rather bossy, but he does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built upon mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Clark.

Wesley Clark becomes very cross if he does not have enough vigorous physical activity. Clark will feels his best if he "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in some other competitive sport) frequently.

Wesley has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Wesley Clark may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Clark's tie to his mother is very strong and Wesley Clark also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

Wesley Clark genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Wesley Clark to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Clark also.

Wesley Clark often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Clark actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Wesley Clark to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises that can occur when he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Wesley Clark becomes much attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Clark can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Wesley's rather introverted, serious, or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Wesley Clark craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Clark rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance one another. His more free and unpredictable side will now be described.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Wesley Clark does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Clark tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Wesley Clark enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and to dangerous or challenging experiences which draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well, and he is interested in the deep roots of emotional problems and how to cure them. Wesley Clark insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he wants real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

Wesley Clark has a magnetic personality, are unconventional, and a bit unpredictable. Wesley loves to flirt and is likely to have sudden romantic relationships that do not always last. Wesley Clark likes variety and always is seeking new experiences with people.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Wesley Clark values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Wesley desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to Clark, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Wesley Clark appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Wesley Clark, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Clark and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Wesley Clark appreciates artistic people.

He is open and progressive in his attitudes towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in his love-expression. Wesley Clark is always willing to experiment and try anything new that Clark's partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. Relationship in which both Wesley and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Clark's interest much more than safe, predictable ones.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Wesley Clark plumbs the depths of which he is capable. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous, or deeply involved with partners who are. Clark will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships which, though difficult, will teach Wesley Clark things about himself and about love that he could learn in no other way. Often Wesley Clark will enter relationships which he knows rationally will be very difficult but, which he nevertheless cannot resist. Wesley Clark needs not berate himself for these "bad" choices; instead he needs to learn what he can from them.

Wesley Clark has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 4th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Conjunct Venus/Uranus

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Trine Uranus

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars