Wendy Wilson in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Wendy Wilson denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Wendy Wilson needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Wendy Wilson also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Wendy, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.
Wendy Wilson frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.
Wilson identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Wendy has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Wilson cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Wendy Wilson has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Wilson would react more intensely. Wendy is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.
In addition to Wendy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Wendy Wilson craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Wilson rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Wendy Wilson craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Wendy Wilson to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Wilson. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Wilson likes it that way.
Wendy Wilson has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to her. She is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and she loves to give and receive social invitations.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Wendy Wilson is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Wendy Wilson also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Wendy Wilson craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Wendy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Wilson.
She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Wendy Wilson falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Wendy to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Wilson's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Wendy Wilson, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.
Wendy Wilson has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Wilson tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Wendy Wilson might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Wendy has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. Her love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Wilson experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Wendy Wilson is always profoundly changed by her love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. She is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things she cares about.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 12th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Conjunct Pluto
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