Vittorio Gassman
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Vittorio Gassman denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Vittorio Gassman needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Vittorio Gassman also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Vittorio Gassman has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Vittorio sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Vittorio Gassman is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Vittorio cannot hide his emotions.

Vittorio Gassman has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Vittorio out for help, sympathy or advice. Vittorio Gassman is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Vittorio Gassman does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Il Mattatore tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Vittorio Gassman enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Vittorio Gassman needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Il Mattatore. Vittorio Gassman tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Il Mattatore does not.

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Vittorio Gassman that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Il Mattatore's neediness often drives others away. When Vittorio Gassman does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Il Mattatore will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Vittorio Gassman will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Vittorio Gassman possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Vittorio Gassman will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Vittorio does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Vittorio Gassman wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Vittorio Gassman appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Vittorio Gassman very happy. Vittorio wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Vittorio Gassman may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Il Mattatore is a natural host or diplomat.

He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Vittorio's nature and Vittorio Gassman feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Il Mattatore. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Vittorio Gassman has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Vittorio Gassman has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Vittorio to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Il Mattatore. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Vittorio Gassman to channel his passion.

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Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Venus in Libra

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Sextile Mars