Vincent Spano
in Relationships

Vincent Spano responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Spano often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Vincent Spano must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Vincent's need for times of withdrawal.

Vincent Spano is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Vincent Spano takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Vincent Spano often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Spano is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Vincent Spano often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

There is another side to Vincent Spano as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Spano can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Vincent Spano puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Spano may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Vincent Spano might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.

In addition to Vincent's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Vincent Spano craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Spano rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Vincent Spano does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Spano tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and his relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Vincent Spano enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

In love relationships, Vincent Spano desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Vincent "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Spano can be very demanding of his love partner. Vincent Spano tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Vincent Spano is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Spano is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Vincent Spano is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Vincent uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Vincent Spano does.

His feelings are very rich and Vincent Spano has an enormous capacity to express his love. He is very cordial and likely to experience happiness in love relationships. Vincent Spano may also have artistic aspirations or aims and could be very successful in some kind of artistic work.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 8th house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 1st house

Venus Opposition Jupiter/MC