Víctor Valdés
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Víctor Valdés rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Valdés' love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Valdés may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Víctor difficult to live with. Víctor Valdés needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Víctor Valdés has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Valdés also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Víctor, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Víctor does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Víctor Valdés is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Víctor Valdés values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Víctor desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Valdés, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Víctor Valdés appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Valdés is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Víctor Valdés thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Víctor Valdés shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Víctor's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Víctor Valdés also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Víctor likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Víctor, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Víctor Valdés tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Valdés' life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Neptune

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Sextile Uranus