Vendela Kirsebom
in Relationships

Open and generous, Vendela Kirsebom enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Kirsebom rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Vendela always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Vendela Kirsebom often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Kirsebom, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Vendela Kirsebom to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Vendela's aspirations and ideals. Vendela Kirsebom also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Kirsebom depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Vendela's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Vendela Kirsebom may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Vendela Kirsebom genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support her. It is relatively easy for Vendela Kirsebom to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in her life. Children are very important to Kirsebom also.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about meeting her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Vendela Kirsebom and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Vendela Kirsebom is apt to do more than her fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Vendela Kirsebom has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Kirsebom to keep her expectations a bit lower.

Vendela has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Vendela Kirsebom to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

Vendela has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Vendela Kirsebom, and she is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of her friends.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Vendela Kirsebom values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Vendela desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Kirsebom, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Vendela Kirsebom appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Kirsebom is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Vendela Kirsebom thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Intimacy does not come easily to Vendela Kirsebom and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Kirsebom does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Vendela Kirsebom needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Vendela Kirsebom has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, she has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. Her outgoing personality puts others at ease and Kirsebom tends to discuss love and beauty with them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 7th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon Conjunct Mars/Neptune

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Uranus

Moon Opposition N. Node/Asc.

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter