Vanessa Carlton
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Vanessa Carlton is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Vanessa Carlton is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Vanessa, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.

Vanessa Carlton frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.

Carlton identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Vanessa Carlton feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Vanessa may not realize how competitive she is.

Sensitive and sentimental, Vanessa Carlton is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Carlton to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Vanessa Carlton seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Vanessa likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Vanessa is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Carlton places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Vanessa Carlton feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 12th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 9th house