Valerie Bertinelli in Relationships
Valerie Bertinelli has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Bertinelli expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Valerie Bertinelli dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Valerie abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Valerie Bertinelli inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Valerie is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Bertinelli.
Valerie Bertinelli becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Bertinelli feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Valerie Bertinelli may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Bertinelli has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Valerie Bertinelli wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Valerie is restless and something of a wanderer.
Valerie Bertinelli has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Valerie out for help, sympathy or advice. Valerie Bertinelli is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Valerie Bertinelli needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Bertinelli. Valerie Bertinelli tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Bertinelli does not.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Valerie Bertinelli enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Valerie wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Valerie is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Bertinelli places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Also, Valerie Bertinelli feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Valerie Bertinelli rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Valerie is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Bertinelli craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Valerie Bertinelli needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
When it comes to love relationships, Bertinelli is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Valerie Bertinelli has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Valerie acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Valerie Bertinelli is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Valerie and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Bertinelli's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Valerie Bertinelli tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, she may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied herself. Valerie could also be subject to improper liaisons.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node
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