Udo Rudolph
in Relationships
Udo does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Udo Rudolph would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Udo Rudolph avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Rudolph. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Udo Rudolph a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Udo's past are especially dear to him.
Udo Rudolph may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Udo Rudolph often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Udo Rudolph tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Udo to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Udo Rudolph may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Udo Rudolph has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Udo Rudolph also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
In love relationships, Udo Rudolph seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Udo, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Udo Rudolph supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Udo that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Udo Rudolph is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Udo Rudolph craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Udo loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Rudolph.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Udo Rudolph to be able to deeply respect his partner. Udo looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Udo Rudolph is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
When it comes to love relationships, Rudolph is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Udo Rudolph has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Udo acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Rudolph may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Udo Rudolph craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Rudolph, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Udo Rudolph to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Rudolph may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Udo Rudolph will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/Venus
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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