Tony Martin
in Relationships
Open and generous, Tony Martin enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Martin rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Tony always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Tony Martin often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Martin, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Tony Martin to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Tony's aspirations and ideals. Tony Martin also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Tony has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Tony Martin may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Martin's ties to his mother are very strong and Tony also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Tony Martin has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Tony's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Martin is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Tony Martin tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Tony feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Tony Martin also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Martin to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Tony Martin may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Martin gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Tony Martin to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Tony Martin either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Tony Martin tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Martin's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Tony Martin will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
Tony Martin possesses a certain inner greatness and because of his inner qualities, he has the ability to influence others. People look to Martin for guidance and advice, and his leadership is easily accepted by those with whom Tony Martin comes in contact.
In love relationships, Tony Martin seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Tony, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Tony Martin supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Tony that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Tony Martin is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Tony Martin and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Tony shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Martin happy.
Tony has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Tony Martin may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 4th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Pluto/MC
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Opposition Saturn/Pluto
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