Tony Bonin
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Tony Bonin has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Tony Bonin is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Bonin for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Bonin's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Bonin. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Tony Bonin has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Tony sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Tony Bonin is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Tony cannot hide his emotions.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Tony Bonin cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Bonin's motto.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Tony Bonin insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
He is hard-working and tends to work till he collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Tony Bonin comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Bonin must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.
In a love relationship, Tony Bonin is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Tony likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Tony Bonin becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Tony Bonin's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Tony Bonin needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Bonin finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Tony Bonin and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Tony shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Bonin happy.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Tony Bonin possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Tony may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Tony Bonin may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Tony Bonin has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Tony frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Bonin can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Bonin's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Tony Bonin could fall in love with the wrong person. He may be too selfless and have the illusion that his only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.
Tony Bonin has a constant longing for new and exciting adventures. Tony likes to be admired and he has a tendency to force admiration by fishing for compliments. His creative power also is strong, and Bonin may have a desire to create some entirely new form of art.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 1st house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Mars/Pluto
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 4th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Moon/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Pluto
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