Toni Collette
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Toni Collette rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Collette's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Collette may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Toni difficult to live with. Toni Collette needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Though she yearns for close relationships, Toni Collette often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Collette is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

Toni Collette tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Toni may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance her overly pessimistic views.

Toni Collette possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Toni Collette will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Toni does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Toni Collette wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Toni Collette appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Toni is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Toni Collette feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Toni Collette shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Toni's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Toni Collette also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Toni likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Toni Collette has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Collette tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Toni Collette might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Toni has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. Her love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Collette experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Toni Collette is always profoundly changed by her love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. She is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things she cares about.

Toni Collette has a passionate nature and a strong expression of her sexuality. Her creative energies also are strong and she may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

Toni Collette tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Collette resents authority and likes to be different. Toni Collette may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 8th house

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune

Venus in Libra

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Conjunct Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars

Venus Conjunct Moon/Uranus