Tommy Lee Jones
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Tommy Lee Jones has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Jones is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Tommy Lee Jones seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Jones tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Tommy Lee's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Tommy Lee Jones substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Tommy Lee, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.

Tommy Lee Jones frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.

Jones identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Tommy Lee Jones tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Tommy Lee feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Tommy Lee Jones also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Jones to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Tommy Lee Jones may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

In love relationships, Tommy Lee Jones desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Tommy Lee "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Jones can be very demanding of his love partner. Tommy Lee Jones tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Tommy Lee Jones is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

When he cares about someone, Tommy Lee Jones likes to show his affection with small favors or tangible gestures.

Tommy Lee Jones also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Tommy Lee is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Tommy Lee Jones rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Tommy Lee is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Jones craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Tommy Lee Jones needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.

Tommy Lee Jones experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Tommy Lee Jones has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Tommy Lee Jones can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Tommy Lee Jones does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 12th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 6th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Opposition Saturn/MC