Tom Welling
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Tom Welling inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Tom wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Welling lavishes on those he cares about. Tom Welling has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Tom Welling hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Tom Welling has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Tom sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Tom Welling is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Tom wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Tom Welling feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Tom Welling has a cheering effect on those around him. Tom likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to his emotional well-being.

There is another side to Tom Welling as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Tom Welling was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Tom Welling feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Tom's emotional well-being.

In addition to Tom's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Tom Welling craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Welling rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Tom Welling craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Tom Welling to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Welling. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Welling likes it that way.

Emotionally excitable, Welling tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Tom as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Tom Welling seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.

He is highly sensitive to everyone around him and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Tom Welling has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Welling to keep his expectations a bit lower.

He is easily influenced by his environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way he expected. Relationships are not easy for Tom Welling; he could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Tom Welling enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Tom wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Tom is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Tom Welling feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Tom Welling loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Tom considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well liked. At times, Tom Welling overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets it.

Tom's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Tom Welling is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Welling is to being left out or unappreciated.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Tom Welling in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Welling is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Tom Welling at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Welling is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Tom Welling has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Tom acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Tom Welling to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Tom becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Tom Welling really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Tom's closest relationships.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Tom Welling explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Welling will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Tom Welling things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Welling will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Tom Welling needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.

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