Tom Hayden
in Relationships
Open and generous, Tom Hayden enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Hayden rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Tom always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Tom Hayden often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Hayden, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Tom Hayden to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Tom's aspirations and ideals. Tom Hayden also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Tom Hayden may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Hayden has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. Tom Hayden wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Tom is restless and something of a wanderer.
Tom Hayden has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Tom out for help, sympathy or advice. Tom Hayden is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
There is another side to Tom Hayden as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Tom Hayden has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Hayden would react more intensely. Tom is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tom does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Tom Hayden is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Tom Hayden has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Tom Hayden also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
Hayden instinctively knows his mission in life. He is satisfied knowing inside himself what he can do and he does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Tom Hayden is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with his loved ones.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Tom Hayden cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Hayden's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Tom at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Tom Hayden is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Tom Hayden may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Tom desires.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Tom Hayden very happy. Tom wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Tom Hayden may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Hayden is a natural host or diplomat.
Tom Hayden has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Tom to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Hayden. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Tom Hayden to channel his passion.
His attitude is positive and harmonious and Tom Hayden impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Sun/Venus
Moon Conjunct Sun/MC
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node
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