Tom Glavine
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Tom Glavine has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Glavine is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Tom Glavine seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Glavine tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Tom's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Tom Glavine substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Tom, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Tom Glavine frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Glavine identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Tom Glavine craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Glavine also loves to feel free and unfettered.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Tom Glavine insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Tom Glavine values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Tom desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Glavine, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Tom Glavine appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Tom Glavine very happy. Tom wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Tom Glavine may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Glavine is a natural host or diplomat.
Tom Glavine appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Tom Glavine will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Tom Glavine to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Tom becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Tom Glavine really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Tom's closest relationships.
Tom Glavine has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Tom frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Glavine can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Glavine's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Tom Glavine to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Glavine may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Tom Glavine will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Tom Glavine tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 12th house
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Trine Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
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