Tom Byron
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Tom Byron only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Byron.
Tom has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Tom Byron has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Tom Byron to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Tom Byron has a great deal of emotional depth.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Tom Byron cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Tom Byron has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Tom takes risks on impulse or whim.
There is a side to Tom Byron which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Byron can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Byron. If Tom's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Tom Byron can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Tom is particularly prone to.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Tom Byron and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Tom Byron is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Byron tends to be high-strung and impatient. Tom Byron knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Tom Byron to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
Tom Byron is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Tom radiates harmony wherever he goes.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Tom Byron enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Tom wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Tom Byron very happy. Tom wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Tom Byron may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Byron is a natural host or diplomat.
He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Tom Byron rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Tom is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Byron craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Tom Byron needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.
When it comes to love relationships, Byron is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Tom Byron has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Tom acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Tom Byron is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Tom and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Byron's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Tom Byron has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Tom also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Tom Byron causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 5th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Opposition Mars/MC
Moon Opposition Asc./MC
Venus in Aries
Venus in 10th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
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