Tom Arnold
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Tom should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Arnold often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Arnold's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Tom Arnold insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Tom does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Tom Arnold feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Tom Arnold a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Tom's past are especially dear to him.

Tom Arnold may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Tom Arnold cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Arnold's motto.

Although Tom Arnold was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Tom's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tom does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Tom Arnold is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Tom Arnold has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, he is warm and friendly to everyone he meets. Arnold is at peace with the world and want to share his feelings with his friends and acquaintances.

He is likely to be noted for his good looks and good taste in clothes. Tom Arnold is able to attract and influence others because he is so pleasant and so sincere in his approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Arnold also is strongly attached to his home and family.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Tom Arnold enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Tom wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Tom Arnold and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Tom shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Arnold happy.

Tom Arnold has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Tom to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Arnold. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Tom Arnold to channel his passion.

He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Tom Arnold is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Tom and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Arnold's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Venus in Aries

Venus in 4th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Trine Uranus