Tilda Swinton
in Relationships

Tilda does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Tilda Swinton would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Tilda Swinton avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Swinton. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Tilda has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage and family traditions. In fact, Tilda Swinton may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Swinton's ties to her mother are very strong and Tilda also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Tilda Swinton needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Swinton. Tilda Swinton tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Tilda has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Tilda Swinton has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Tilda Swinton undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Tilda Swinton is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; Swinton tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Tilda may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

In love relationships, Tilda Swinton seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Tilda, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Tilda Swinton supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Tilda that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Tilda Swinton is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Swinton is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Tilda Swinton thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Swinton's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Tilda Swinton finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable may not be attuned to her sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is that the people Tilda loves and the people Tilda wants to make love with are very different from one another. Tilda Swinton may be confused about what she really needs and wants in personal relationships. Swinton needs to acknowledge that she has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality; security and commitment in love relationships alongside a great deal of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 4th house

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Quincunx Mars