Tanja Dexters
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Tanja Dexters rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Dexters' love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Dexters may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Tanja difficult to live with. Tanja Dexters needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Though she wants close relationships very much, Tanja Dexters often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Dexters is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Tanja Dexters does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Dexters tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Tanja Dexters enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tanja does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Tanja Dexters is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

She is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and she tries to suppress the jealousy she may feel. Tanja Dexters may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making her a bit hard and unyielding in later life.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Tanja Dexters enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Tanja wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Tanja Dexters, and she has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Dexters and she instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

She enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Tanja Dexters appreciates artistic people.

Her strong enthusiasm for life affects everyone around her. Tanja Dexters has a sense of well-being, a harmonious sex-life and she is likely to enjoy healthy and affectionate love relationships. Tanja Dexters also has a lot of creative ideas and could do well with some kind of craft projects.

She is very affectionate in her relationships and tends to form deep attachments with other people. Tanja Dexters may also enjoy contacts with the arts and may join associations that are connected with artistic events or cultural exchanges.

She is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Tanja Dexters probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and her attachment to others is likely to be very deep.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 8th house

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Jupiter

Venus Opposition Moon/N. Node

Venus Opposition Moon/MC