Tami Farrell
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Tami should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Farrell often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Farrell's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Tami Farrell insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Tami does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Tami Farrell feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Tami Farrell often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Farrell thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Tami is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Tami Farrell has good psychological insight into others.

Farrell is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to her. In fact, Tami Farrell needs to do these things - otherwise she gets crabby.

Although Tami Farrell was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Tami's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Tami Farrell tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Tami to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Tami Farrell may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Tami Farrell insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

In love relationships, Tami Farrell desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Tami "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Farrell can be very demanding of her love partner. Tami Farrell tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Tami Farrell is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Farrell is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Tami Farrell thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Intimacy does not come easily to Tami Farrell and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Farrell does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Tami Farrell needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

She is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Tami Farrell tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If she does not keep this in control, she could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.

She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Tami Farrell is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.

Others may get the impression that Tami Farrell considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Tami Farrell would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mars/MC

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC