T.T. Boy in Relationships
T.T. Boy does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. T.T. Boy would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
T.T. Boy avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to T.T. Boy. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
T.T. Boy gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. T.T. Boy makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. T.T. Boy needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.
He is easily influenced by his environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way he expected. Relationships are not easy for T.T. Boy; he could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.
T.T. Boy has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to T.T. Boy, and he is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of his friends.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". T.T. Boy enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. T.T. Boy wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
T.T. Boy is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, T.T. Boy feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
T.T. Boy appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, T.T. Boy will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for T.T. Boy to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When T.T. Boy becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because T.T. Boy really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in T.T. Boy's closest relationships.
It is absolutely essential for T.T. Boy not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. T.T. Boy tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that T.T. Boy will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, T.T. Boy does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.
T.T. Boy is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. T.T. Boy tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
T.T. Boy tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When T.T. Boy loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 11th house
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
Moon Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Conjunct Saturn/MC
Venus Opposition Uranus/Neptune
Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC
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