Stonewall Jackson
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Stonewall Jackson is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Stonewall Jackson is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Stonewall, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Stonewall Jackson frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Jackson identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Stonewall Jackson feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Stonewall may not realize how competitive he is.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Stonewall Jackson also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
Stonewall Jackson has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Stonewall out for help, sympathy or advice. Stonewall Jackson is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
Although Stonewall Jackson was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Stonewall's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Stonewall does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Stonewall Jackson is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Stonewall Jackson has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Stonewall goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.
Stonewall has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Stonewall Jackson to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
His sense of reality is a bit weak; Jackson tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Stonewall may be drawn to philanthropic associations.
In love relationships, Stonewall Jackson seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Stonewall, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Stonewall Jackson supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Stonewall that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Stonewall Jackson is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
For Stonewall Jackson, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Stonewall values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Stonewall Jackson needs to beware of.
Stonewall Jackson tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Jackson may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Stonewall Jackson is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Stonewall believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 12th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Venus/MC
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
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