Stevie Nicks
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Stevie Nicks denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Stevie Nicks needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Stevie Nicks also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Nicks works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Stevie, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Stevie Nicks is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Stevie has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Stevie - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.

Nicks can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Stevie Nicks puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Nicks may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Stevie Nicks might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Stevie does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Stevie Nicks is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Stevie Nicks, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Stevie does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Stevie Nicks needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating, if Stevie Nicks is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Stevie Nicks must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.

Sensitive and sentimental, Stevie Nicks is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Nicks to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Stevie Nicks seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Stevie likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to Stevie Nicks, and she has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Nicks and she instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

She enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Stevie Nicks appreciates artistic people.

Stevie Nicks has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Stevie frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Nicks can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Nicks' love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

Stevie Nicks tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Stevie Nicks enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.

She is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into her creations. But her emotional state is easily upset and Nicks can be a fanatic in love relationships. Stevie Nicks tends to be possessive and she has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 10th house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto