Stephen Stills
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Stephen Stills rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Stills' love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Stills may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Stephen difficult to live with. Stephen Stills needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Stephen, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Stephen Stills frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Stills identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Stephen Stills and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Stephen Stills is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
In addition to Stephen's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Stephen Stills craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Stills rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Stephen Stills craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Stephen Stills to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Stills. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Stills likes it that way.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Stephen Stills values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Stephen desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Stills, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Stephen Stills appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Stephen Stills loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Stills needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner, and he wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to his beloved. Stephen Stills also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.
Stephen Stills has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Stephen to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Stills. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Stephen Stills to channel his passion.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Stephen Stills possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Stephen may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Stephen Stills may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Stephen Stills tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, he may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied himself. Stephen could also be subject to improper liaisons.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 12th house
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 5th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node
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