Sri Aurobindo
in Relationships
Open and generous, Sri Aurobindo enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Aurobindo Ghose rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Sri Aurobindo always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Sri Aurobindo often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Aurobindo Ghose, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Sri Aurobindo to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Sri Aurobindo's aspirations and ideals. Sri Aurobindo also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Sri Aurobindo cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Sri Aurobindo has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Sri Aurobindo takes risks on impulse or whim.
Sri Aurobindo feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
Sri Aurobindo tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Sri Aurobindo feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Sri Aurobindo also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Aurobindo Ghose to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Sri Aurobindo may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Sri Aurobindo was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Sri Aurobindo's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Aurobindo Ghose's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Sri Aurobindo is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
Sri Aurobindo has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Sri Aurobindo looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Sri Aurobindo must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.
Sri Aurobindo has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of his easy personality, Aurobindo Ghose gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Sri Aurobindo and his home is likely to be large and lavish.
Sri Aurobindo tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
Sri Aurobindo is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Sri Aurobindo radiates harmony wherever he goes.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Sri Aurobindo is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Sri Aurobindo also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Aurobindo Ghose is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Sri Aurobindo is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Sri Aurobindo uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Sri Aurobindo does.
Sensitive and compassionate, Aurobindo Ghose tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Sri Aurobindo has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Sri Aurobindo is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Sri Aurobindo has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, he has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. His outgoing personality puts others at ease and Aurobindo Ghose tends to discuss love and beauty with them.
Sri Aurobindo finds it easy to demonstrate his love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Aurobindo Ghose tends to reveal his most personal feelings to people in his intimate circle of friends.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune
Moon Opposition Jupiter/MC
Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto
Moon Opposition Asc./MC
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
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