Soon-Yi Previn
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Soon-Yi Previn denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Soon-Yi Previn needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Soon-Yi Previn also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Soon-Yi Previn has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Soon-Yi sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Soon-Yi Previn is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she comes across. Soon-Yi wears her heart on her sleeves and cannot hide her emotions.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Soon-Yi Previn has a cheering effect on those around her. Soon-Yi likes and needs people, and others genuinely like her too. She enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to her. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to her emotional well-being.

Soon-Yi Previn craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Soon-Yi Previn to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Previn. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Previn likes it that way.

Soon-Yi Previn has a strong desire for genuine understanding with others and finds it easy to share her feelings with them. Her feelings toward others are very loving and Soon-Yi is likely to have a lot in common with many of her friends.

In love relationships, Soon-Yi Previn desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Soon-Yi "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Previn can be very demanding of her love partner. Soon-Yi Previn tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Soon-Yi Previn is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Previn is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Soon-Yi Previn thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Soon-Yi Previn has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well being. It is rare for Soon-Yi to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Previn. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Soon-Yi Previn to channel her passion.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Soon-Yi Previn and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Soon-Yi allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Soon-Yi Previn, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Soon-Yi Previn yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Previn frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Soon-Yi Previn does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Soon-Yi Previn thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Previn relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 1st house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Conjunct Venus/N. Node

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Conjunct Neptune

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury